Popular hair vendor and businesswoman Wanneka has come out with yet another advise on marriage, and this time around, it was with regards to the pressure of getting married early in life.
In her post, Wanneka wrote;
”Dear singles in the house, may you all marry well. may your first marriage be the last and the best.
But here is the thing, to achieve this, no rush, no desperation, no l must marry by force, let the man be into you and willing and ready to marry you as much as you are into him.
One thing we all need to understand is marriage is not a competition. Marry wen you know and feel it’s right with your actual better half.
Truth is, even if you marry at 31 which some
women think it’s too late these days and God willing, you have a child same year, at 61, you will have a 30 years old child who will also probably be married and still give you
a child and you will still be grandma anyways
A lot of us these days feel like marrying at 30 or 31 or 32 is a taboo. Will you rather marry your enemy in your 20’s or marry your real husband that God has destined for you in your 30’s?
Both early marriage and late marriage has its advantages and disadvantages believe me, some can marry early and get it right, some marry early and get it wrong.
But lately, majority just wan to marry early weather they get it wrong or right, they really don’t care”
God didn’t design marriages to end in divorce and I’m telling you from experience,
divorce is necessary when the situation is
takes your peace and Nobody gets married to get divorced trust me but it becomes necessary with a lot of factors and understandably so but pls the best way to
reduce it is by making sure we take our time to marry right from the start
It’s not a competition of who marries first, did you marry the man you will look at in 20 years and be happy you married him?
Funny thing is, marriage is not about the now, it’s about the later. When the kidsnare grown and gone, will you look at the man you married and and be at peace with yourself wen it’s just both of you in the whole compound?”
