WhatsApp, please, it’s not that serious. | Image Credit – PhoneArena
What’s even more annoying than a large, beating heart sent by someone you love is a heart react or emoji from someone who barely knows you. What happened to boundaries and genuine emotions? I have had people I purely have a commercial relationship with send me hearts. If I have known you for only a week and chances are that we won’t keep in touch unless our circumstances compel us to, such as working at the same place, please don’t bombard me with hearts on my phone. It feels false, fake, and overly sweet.
That’s not to say that people who send you heart emojis are not inauthentic. Similarly, I don’t think that the heart emoji necessarily has connotations of romance in this day and age. However, heart still very much equates to love, and for that reason, I think it’s something of a sacred emoji and must be reserved for friends and family.
I many of us were conditioned by the likes of WhatsApp and Instagram to punctuate every feel-good conversation with a heart. And now, Google Messages wants us to indulge in overuse of the heart emoji. That might come across as something benign but it’s a visual representation of how misplaced our emotions are and why tech may be to blame for it.
Double-tapping a message on Google Messages will stamp it with a heart. | Image Credit – 9to5Google
The latest version of the app will heart messages when you double-tap on them. And given our propensity to go for defaults and our laziness, many of us are likely to react to messages with heart instead of long-pressing on a text and choosing something else.
Facebook chose the middle ground by keeping thumbs-up as the default emoji but only Reddit keeps it real with upvotes and downvotes. I say hurt me with the truth downvotes but never comfort me with a lie heart emoji.
Symbols and signs have meanings and some people read more into them than others. There are whole articles about decoding the different heart emojis for crying out loud.
For a society with serious trust issues, we sure use the heart emoji far more than we ought to. What happened to good old thumbs-up? If it’s being phased out for coming across as unsettling or passive-aggressive, who thought it was a good idea to replace it with the heart emoji?